These days are long gone already. Earlier this winter, Violet and Hailee made friends by engaging in this massaging grooming behavior. They'd run their lips and teeth along each other and give each other swirlys. On some days, you would see these big flowered tulips of swirled hair all along H's neck and back.But as I said, those days are gone. Hailee is so big and uncomfortable that she can't even stand the sight of Violet, let alone the thought of her touching her. Violet is heartbroken, poor thing!